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I’m not changing my name to THAT

I made my husband change his last name before id marry him because i didnt like it

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Why would I pay for your Cake if you didn’t even get us a wedding gift

I got married 9 months ago, and I’m still fuming over 5 guests who came to our wedding (full families to feed) and didn’t give us gifts! I know this is petty and ridiculous, but not even a CARD! One of them is my brother and his fiance. She was in my wedding party and money was tight so I ended up buying her dress and jewelry. Her wedding is this summer and she actually had the nerve to ask my husband and I to pay for their wedding cake as our gift to them!! I can’t decide if I’m more bridezilla for being hung up that they didn’t get us anything, or that she’s worse for asking us to pay for her cake! Just ridiculous!

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Marriage to divorce

I have known Ally (not her real name) since we were 14. We have always sworn that when the time came we’d have each other in our weddings. I should never have made such a promise.

Ally and Mark (not his real name) met in HS. I never liked him, but after they’d dated/lived together off and on for four years and gotten engaged I didn’t think there was much I could do to convince her. Was told after said engagement to prepare to buy a BM dress. No call. For two years. During this time the couple again moved in with each other and later, when they could no longer afford that around their expensive habit of tearing apart and rebuilding her car for car shows, they moved in with his parents together. (This is important later).

During the two years when I am hearing nothing from BTB, I am paying my way through college on a base-paying job. Every six months or so I would call about the wedding. BTB never picks up the phone. Finally, at lowest financial point of my life, Ally calls. “We’re getting married in 3 months! Meet me at David’s Bridal and we’ll pick out a dress for you!”

I was originally supposed to be one of four BMs (including MOH). Early on, Ally promised us that the dress would be inexpensive. After alterations, my dress cost as much as the BTB’s gown (she got hers on sale…no such luck for us)! Came to find out later that the MOH who was also FG’s mother and RB’s mother and minister’s wife, had to pay not only for her dress but also for the FG dress which was a mini-BTB gown…and was MORE EXPENSIVE than BTB’s gown! Not like ANYONE involved in the wedding was rolling in money, but even now that seems overboard.

After gowns were bought parties began to be planned. BTB and her FH registered at Wal-Mart, which seemed reasonable and (finally!) affordable. Until I got to the store. Their registry had next-to-nothing that was under $200 on it…and included big ticket items like big screen televisions and the entire first season of their favorite television program. It left me in a bind because I couldn’t afford to buy just about any of it…and all of their lower priced items had already been purchased. And really…didn’t know what to get for a couple who had been living together on and off for a total of five years?

BTB showed up at the Jack-and-Jill shower she’d demanded and 1) wondered why she didn’t get better gifts 2) wondered why she didn’t get double gifts 3) demanded better/more gifts at bachelorette party and wedding. Then, when a BM came who couldn’t afford the dress and three gifts she abruptly asked the girl (in front of everyone) why she bothered to come at all. No thank you’s ever said or sent.

I missed the rehearsal dinner because of another wedding I was attending, but I guess that it was there where Ally’s Bridezilla colors truly shined. She threw a royal hissy fit because no one was walking the way she wanted and she couldn’t decide how to pair BM’s and GM. She threw things and screamed everyone down saying things like “You’re all ruining my wedding!” and “This is my wedding, we’ll do it the way I want!” It was insane and I was glad that I’d missed it. In the aftermath she lost a BM (the one who couldn’t afford the shower gift..the girl had bought the dress but decided on the last night that she couldn’t handle Ally anymore).

Wedding day. I show up at MOH/Minister/FG/RB’s house. The remaining BM and I are trying to keep RB (Age 3) and FG (Age 5) happy…while occasionally checking on MOH and BTB. BTB is in bedroom complaining that her hair (which MOH had spent three hours on) was not good enough. MOH should be given sainthood for her patience. Other BM was sniped at “don’t mess up the song you’re singing” …which made the girl even more nervous than she already was. I was sniped at “If you cover your shoulders with that wrap I will rip it off of your body at the altar!”

BTB had planned a limo to take everyone to the park…except hadn’t given anyone advanced notice. My car was at the MOH’s house…and no way for me to get back to it after the wedding…thankfully MOH offered me a ride when BTB threw a tizzy because I suggested that I follow in my car. When we got to the park, BTB threw another fit because her FMIL was at the wedding (the woman she was living with…but she didn’t want her there) and almost didn’t get out of the limo as a result. When I tried to remind Ally that the moment was about her and Mark getting married and none of the details…she told me to shut the heck up (with expletives) and get out of the limo.

Once we exited the limo everything went fairly smoothly. I took up the MOH role, since the MOH was busy with FG/RB/Minister. I thought that the wedding was beautiful but later heard Ally grumbling that she couldn’t believe how long it had taken for her father to walk her down the aisle or how rude everyone was to go over to the reception area while the wedding party was posing for pictures. She also couldn’t believe her BMs and GM were uneven (making people quit will do that to you)…and so on and so forth.

The Bride and Groom ended up opening presents at the reception (never heard of such a thing!) and being completely unimpressed with what they got. The real reason, I found out later, was that they’d expected people would give them money…and only one person had gifted them cash. Silly us, we thought you actually WANTED the stuff on your registry!

I went home exhausted…received no thank you…and didn’t hear from the bride again until their divorce two years later.

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My older sister’s wedding

Always heard Hindu weddings are very pompous and full of guests, but experienced it for the first time for real in my elder sister’s marriage. I was still in my college at that time and honestly I was too young to handle the guests. Scores of guests were thronging the reception ceremony and I was midst mixed emotions. Well, I was happy that my sister was getting married but at the same time I was feeling very shy to face so many visitors who also took a keen interest on me and on what I was doing. I tried my best to stay away from the crowd and hang out with my friends. It was a very difficult day for me due to my extrovert nature. I wonder what will happen in my own wedding. Keeping my fingers crossed folks!

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It Had To Rain???

Well, I was this bridesmaid in my best friend’s wedding long back in 2007, when we had this thing happening which I can say a NIGHTMARE.. for the entire guests and family. There were like seven bridesmaid in all. It was raining cats and dogs and the wedding that followed by lunch was on a lawn, so they had to put some covers to prevent the rain from destroying the wedding. The bride, my dear friend slipped right in the entrance which left her embarrased and above all she could hear few whispers and giggles.Hence she was all amused. Throughout the wedding she kept fussing on small small things and everybody had to bear it. Finally when she had to say ‘I do’ she took exactly 15 minutes to say it and that left her groom totally mad. They didn’t speak for quite sometime and it was totally obvious for us that situation was out of control.The wedding went on pretty quietly and to tell you the truth everyone wanted to run away from it. I hoped it finished soon.

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My Cousin wedding

My Cousin was getting married and she was hell on wheels!! I had never seen someone have such a baby hissy fit over having pink ribbons on her bouquet instead of “salmon”. Honest to God, the difference was not that noticeable. She micro managed everything and I wanted to quit the wedding but you can’t leave your sister. She made sure every detail was to her specifications and the only thing she let her husband do was pick out the alcohol. Even that was wrong because he did not get the right things and she still complains to this day about that

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Wow. You are getting married to THAT?

Well my best friend name Is Ulises Torner, and wow, he got married to this enormous evil chick. Their wedding was just amazing, but god as a being there for Ulises made me realize how crazy she was, she shouted at him whenever something wasn’t perfect, and she sweared like a pig, and god, when the ring went missing for 5 freaking minutes, she almost killed my poor friend and starting shouting at me, when I had nothing at all to do with it, everything was like that, then when it came to picking a cake, she tasted and was happy I was there aswell, and it tasted rather good, the day of the wedding she was histerical because the cake tasted “different”, and it didn’t, It was exactly the same, and she made such a mess over it.

I honestly can’t believe he got married to THAT.

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Ugh

My friend recently got married and was seriously a HUGE bridezilla. She changed the date at the last minute and freaked out when people couldn’t make it with one month notice. She told everyone no kids allowed, but then made exceptions for some people….so there were actually lots of kids there, and of course the people who were paying babysitters were not happy. She had the nerve to tell everyone to give her cash instead of gifts, which of course did not go over well. Overall, she was completely rude and horrible throughout the whole process, and didn’t thank any of the people who did all of the work for her.

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Freinds Reality

My friend who was near my home, was about to get married. But once it was decided of the date and also all arrangements were made. On the wedding day, she suddenly redused to get married and then One person came who said that he was her lover. And after seeing that she just ran away with him. There was lot of confusion and angry in the girls & boys family.

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Bridezilla – Watch Out!

A friend of mine turned into a total bridezilla while she was planning her wedding. Obsessive, rude, and uncaring about anything about her wedding, and she needed so badly to be the center of attention at all times! I understand it’s your big day, but it’s not your day for the year plus leading up to the wedding – the rest of us have lives, too! My sister got engaged while this bridezilla friend was planning her wedding, and she wouldn’t even let me talk about it – it was all about her and her wedding until the wedding day – UGH!

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I am so mad I can’t even see straight!!!

Without telling me or saying anything about it, my future mother in law went out and bought this dress to wear to my wedding… it is, get this WHITE, strapless, long, has a corset tie up the back, and shows a disgusting amount of cleavage. Its basically a FRICKING wedding dress!! Who does she think she is? She is a totally wannabe MILF trying to relive her glory days because she’s now a divorcee. But that does not give her the right to try to be ME on my wedding day. I am fuming. I just called fiance and told him he had better get her to take that thing back, otherwise she will not be welcome at the wedding. What NERVE!!!!

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My bridesmaid needs to loose about 40 lbs

So I’m normally a very tolerant person, and I love my friend Melissa who is my maid of honor. But seriously, pul-ease, could you even try to take care of yourself? Back in college she was so cute but since having 3 kids has totally let herself go and is now probably 75 lbs overweight. I feel so bad saying this, but are kidding me, a size 28 bridesmaid dress? I’m one of her closest friends and if she doesn’t think it’s worth losing a little weight (for her own health), could you at least do it for me, for my wedding? I know you’re all going to hate on me for this, but honestly, she used to take care of herself. I of course want her in the wedding, but sheesh.

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Not interested in your opinions or ideas

Why does everyone find it necessary to inject their opinion, wants or ideas, into MY wedding? No I don’t give a crap what cool thing you saw them do at your hick cousins wedding. NO, I’m not interested in having my future mother in law pick out the flower girl dresses for her precious grand daughters (they’d end up looking like they were straight out of little house on the prairie). This is my wedding, I’m going to do it my way, I’ve got it all figured out so keep your opinions and your “great ideas” to yourself.

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Bride from Hell

A bridezilla (a neologistic portmanteau of bride and Godzilla) is a difficult, unpleasant, perfectionist bride who leaves aggravated family, friends and bridal vendors in her wake. She is often called greedy, selfish and spoiled; not caring about the people that she hurts to get exactly what she wants on her perfect day.

Um…. This is the exact example of my so-called best friend. I am her maid of honor and it has been the worst experience of my life. I can’t wait for this awful wedding to be over so I can go back to my stress free, drama free life!
This girl is only capable of talking about herself and talking badly about her family (who has paid for the entire wedding!)
Most people are not lucky enough to get a free wedding, but she doesnt care at all. She wants everything her way 100% of the time. Every word out of my mouth has something to do with her apparently. If I tell her a story about work, she thinks I’m talking about her. I literally can’t escape her awful vanity and selfishness. I will probably never speak to her again after this wedding becuase she has put me through hell. Everything has had to be perfect, and any “thank yous” I get from her are always accompanied with some kind of “but.” I have spend over a grand on this day without thinking twice. NOw I’m full of regret and just wish I had my money back. I would rather spend it on someone who appreciates it. It breaks my heart to find out what a terrible person she really is.

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GuestZilla

My son is getting married. His bride has been wonderful. BUT let me tell you about GuestZilla. What part of nobody under the age of 18 years old does this guestzilla (my younger sister) NOT understand? She has had heated debates with the Brides mother, shouting matches with the Bride, been spoken to by my son the groom, written me ugly and threatening emails, enlisted our mother’s help (she has dementia) making her cry constantly. Mom calls me crying constantly “why do you hate Mary and Jane?” Why would you do this to Mary and Jane? What did Mary and Jane ever do to you? Mind you this was the decision of the bride and groom not to have young children, NOT MINE. Then she has gone to everyone and anyone who will listen and whinned to them I’m doing this out of spite. Now very few from my side of the family is going to my son’s wedding. Both John and Sue are the nicest, most laidback sweethearts you could ever meet. My sister on the other hand is spitefull, vendictive, down right evil who was diagnosed as delusional with anger management issues. She is also a teacher (that in itself is a joke)

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My maid of honor (sister) wants to get pregant??

My sister WAS my maid of honor. The other day she told me that her and her husband are going to start trying for kids (she just tells me, doesn’t bother ASKING me). Our wedding is in 14 months. So she’ll either have a brand new baby at the wedding, or will be pregnant. I’m trying to deal with this delicately, but I’m the youngest and she has always been the center of attention.  If she brings an infant to the wedding, I’ll feel annoyed all night that the new baby will get all the family attention (stealing my thunder?) and if she’s pregnant, I’m sure she’ll be tired and I honestly don’t want to even consider maternity bridesmaid dresses.   So I’m telling her she’s out and my best friend is in.

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I hate my dress

I bought my dress right when I got engaged, now its a year later (6 months till my wedding) and I hate it. thinking of calling off the wedding. Ok maybe not, but I want to put my dress in the shredder.

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My fiance is driving me crazy

My fiance is a crazy bridezilla. She won\’t stop stressing. Everything is all set. Church, reception, cake, limo, honeymoon. I mean, it\’s true her bridesmaids and my best man haven\’t really pulled any of their weigh, but I have as a groom, been there for her for everything possible and imaginable; trying really hard to remain sensitive and open to all her needs. Every little thing has to be beyond perfect for her. God forbid something should go wrong. I mean come on? Is there life after this? Does life go on, or is this the end of all? It\’s as if after the wedding we will be shipping to eternity. What ever happened to that nice, sweet girl?

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Used to be best friends

So my friend, who was my best friend is getting married this weekend. My boyfriend happens to be the best man. They got engaged Feb. of last year and for awhile were thinking and figuring out stuff then it stopped. She got fired and didn\’t get a new job, they are paying for the wedding themselves basically. One bridesmaid quit then wanted back in. He the groom didn\’t ask his men until January. The dresses were not picked out until Feb and we all had to pay extra money to have them rushed. Fast forward to the week before the wedding. Monday the following happened: she announced she didn\’t want to get married but was anyway, the reception site double booked and the location changed. Tuesday we finally get details about rehearsal dinner and are told we are not all going in the limo even though that was the original plan so now we all need to find our own ride to take pictures and then to the reception. Thursday we are told we need silver, dangle earrings to wear to the wedding even though in the beginning we were told we were getting our jewelry….needless to say after Saturday I doubt I will be friends with her

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Bridezilla no, just being a normal person who wont take crap from close people who let her down.

I chose a destination wedding because it was cheaper than having it at home at $100 a head. I have not been able to work waiting for my greencard, but have always made a tonne of cash on my own. I never thought I would be in a place where I\’d have to seriously question whether or not I can afford to have my hair done on the wedding day. My parents are not helping out at all, and its making me look like a redneck.. when they paid for my other two sisters weddings. They are older, and guess what, weddings dont cost $4000 anymore. Im so annoyed. I thought it would be as simple as sending an invitation and having people show up..but you just cant believe what people say to you when all you need is support. It\’s so wrong. And then this term Bridezilla gets invented, but all you are doing is saying, back off, just show up and shut up. Like a wedding in Paris on me, with fireworks on a boat is not good enough for you? I continue to be amazed by how ruthlessly stupid, thoughtless, bad mannered people are, who call themselves well adjusted members of society. Its such a wank. I have never been this way before, and I acutally do event planning for a living. But here\’s the thing. If you are not contributing to my wedding finanicially. Shut the fuck up, and show up. And if I hear one more time “its your day, after I\’ve just planned a bunch of invites for my groom who could not get it right the first time, or had to write my own multiple choice questions for one of three bridal showers that are supposed to make me feel loved, I\’m going to scream. .HELLLLLLOOOOOOOO people. What a stupid stupid stupid act this is. Where is the mother of the bride when you need her? And thanks that my new in laws think I come from trailer park trash because you thought having a daughter later in life would exempt you from actually paying for wow..lets go for 5%?? how bout zero! It\’s not like I\’ve been a bad daughter, I always cleaned my room, payed for my own college, worked three jobs to do it. Parents. Get it the fuck together. If you have kids this is apart of the deal and its not enough to just show up and wear the pretty dress. THAT is wrong. Bad manners and unfair. I just want to get back to work and never be in the process of getting married again. It\’s easy if you have money. But in this economy. I would have rathered just had people show up to our place then quietly invited our good friends for a dinner on a boat.

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